"Oh, I’m so ready!" or "Watch this space!"—these are the mantras we often recite when we’re gearing up for New Year’s resolutions. I think we all tend to focus on the big desires, like hitting the gym or diving into new adventures. Yet, how many of us actually follow through? I don’t mean to sound like a motivational speaker or offer guru-like advice, but I wanted to share my thoughts on a question that seems to pop up every January—at least that's what Google tells me.
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Truthfully, I don’t think we’re ever completely ready for many of life’s challenges. Often, it's just that rush of dopamine—the thrill of a new beginning—that leads us to confidently declare our goals. That enthusiasm, however, can fade quickly when we encounter obstacles. It’s usually the brave and persistent who manage to see their goals through.
Having ditched the whole "New Year, New Me" mantra back in my teenage years, I've come to appreciate the value of time, courage, and utmost faith. We’re rarely fully prepared for what life throws our way—whether it’s studying abroad, launching a business, or navigating a new job. I’d wager that many friends in their twenties, like me, didn’t feel truly ready for where they are today, yet here we are, making the best of it.
What I’ve learned is that the moment we’re in is what truly matters. It doesn’t really matter how many plans we draft or resolutions we set. It’s our actions today that count, the thoughts we nurture, and how we prepare for what’s next. Even if the path ahead is uncertain, we have the power to envision it. As Kobe Bryant wisely said, "Confidence comes from preparation." It’s about studying before studying, training before training—getting the gist?
So, let’s be brave and confident in our journeys. I have immense admiration for my friends and anyone who has embraced new goals before the year even started, and I encourage those who’ve made resolutions to keep pushing forward. The initial excitement might wear off, but remember, it’s not just about "New Year, New Me." Growth and improvement can happen at any time; we can start over as many times as we need.
Happy New Year!
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